Should You Use Fabric Softener? Here’s What You Need to Know
That bottle of fabric softener might promise freshness and softness, but is it really helping your laundry? Many people use it by default, not realizing it can do more harm than good. If you’ve ever wondered, “Should I use fabric softener?” this guide breaks down the pros, cons, and smart alternatives.
“Fabric softener isn’t always the answer—sometimes it does more harm than good.”
What Fabric Softener Does
Fabric softeners coat your clothes with a waxy lubricant to reduce static and make them feel smoother. They also add scent and make fabrics easier to iron.
Typical benefits:
- Softens clothes and linens
- Reduces static cling
- Adds a pleasant scent
- Makes ironing easier
When You Should Use Fabric Softener
There are times when softener can be helpful—especially with bulky fabrics.
Best fabrics to use it on:
- Cotton shirts and pajamas
- Bed sheets and pillowcases
- Dress shirts or wrinkle-prone clothes
Tip: Use it in small amounts and don’t overpour—too much will leave residue.
When You Should Avoid It
Some fabrics don’t pair well with softener. In fact, softener can ruin them by coating the fibers, reducing absorbency, or damaging elasticity.
Avoid softener on:
- Towels (reduces absorbency)
- Athletic wear and moisture-wicking fabrics
- Microfiber cloths
- Baby clothes with flame-resistant labels
- Flannel and fleece (can cause pilling)
| Fabric Type | Use Softener? | Why or Why Not |
|---|---|---|
| Cotton Sheets | Yes | Adds softness and scent |
| Towels | No | Coats fibers, lowers absorbency |
| Activewear | No | Blocks moisture-wicking performance |
| Microfiber | No | Damages fiber structure |
| Baby Pajamas | No | Can reduce flame resistance |
It Can Build Up in Your Washer
Fabric softener can also leave gunky residue in your washer over time. This build-up can cause odors, discoloration, and even affect your washer’s performance.
How to prevent this:
- Use the recommended amount
- Run a cleaning cycle monthly
- Switch to liquid softener alternatives when possible
Natural Alternatives to Fabric Softener
If you want softness without chemicals, you’re in luck. These eco-friendly options are gentler on skin, fabrics, and machines.
Try these instead:
- White vinegar in the rinse cycle (½ cup softens clothes naturally)
- Wool dryer balls to reduce static and drying time
- Baking soda in the wash cycle to boost softness and freshness
- Essential oils added to dryer balls for natural scent
For more on chemical-free options, see EWG’s laundry safety guide.




